Restorative Practices in the Unitarian Universalist Church

These ideas could very well be adapted for our community. I especially like that a Unitarian Universalist minister address multi-species communication.

Here is a very helpful. hand out:

https://www.uua.org/sites/live-new.uua.org/files/restorerelationshiphandout.pdf

Here is a video and description of the webinar:

https://www.uua.org/leadership/blog/restoring-relationships-congregations

I would love your feedback!

Thanks to Melanie G. for contributing this resource and all of her input which has helped me tremendously.

 

 

Song I Wrote About My Part In Events Leading Up to the Fayetteville Tree Sit in 2000

Ballad of Upholding the Tree Ordinance Leading up to the Fayetteville Tree Sit of 2000

In April of 2000 Patricia attended a planning commission meeting for fayetteville

The commissioners wanted public input on the proposal Kohl’s department store made

They wanted to violated our brand new tree ordinance

Instead of changing the architecture of their store.

Seems like a no brainer but that is how the government behaved in those days under Mayor Hanna’s leadership

30 people attended that meeting and 11 spoke against the plan, including Patricia Mikkelson who had never been involved with government issues in her life.

The commissioners said they’d think about what we said,

Patricia asked Fran Alexander why they didn’t listen to the people and make a decision then and there.

Fran said “They will keep having meetings that are hard to find out about until no one shows up to protest and then they’d do what Kohl’s wanted”.

Patricia said, “There is no way they are going to do that cause that’s not fair.”

How do I find out about the meetings so i can let people know?”

She gave me the instructions and I followed her wise advice.

And Patricia found out the dates of every meeting where they would discuss the issue and the numbers of people who attended each meeting increased each time.

Paula Marinoni and Barbara Moorman were invaluable as Patricia’s mentors in this effort. Paula said, “Use the slogan uphold the Tree ordinance” instead of save the trees

because we want to involve all kinds of people and most people  want to uphold the law. People woke up from their slumber and got involved.Activists, working class people, spiritual leaders,  lawyers, professors, other professionals, young and old, white and people of color, gay and straight–all united for this common cause.

Patricia gathered emails of people who were interested in the issue

She sent out notifications about updates including the upcoming meetings. She held meetings to encourage and empower people to do what they felt inspired to do.

People sent the emails to their mailing lists

Mary Alice Serafini of the League of women’s voters Dick Bennett of Omni had large lists which were super  helpful.

The news spread like wildfire and people were very upset and wanted to help.

The Morning News and Arkansas Democrat Gazette Covered the story well often with front page pictures that got a lot of attention

For example they covered the sign making party  that Patricia held and Marquette and Linda Ralston came and helped with and their children came,

Patricia was the only demonstrator at the first city council meeting,

But the paper put her on the front page with her sign saying “uphold the tree ordinance” and the reporter neglected to say there was only one demonstrator

More and more people got creative and initiated various events

Joannie Conners organized a creative rally that got front page coverage.

Julia Butterfly Hill  came down from the tree and

The first place that she spoke was U of A at an event organized by Marquette Bruce

Mary Lightheart listened to Julia’s lecture and was inspired

That is why she came to the2nd City Council meeting and was willing to do a tree sit.

A week before the fateful city council meeting Susanna _________ called Patricia saying,

“If they vote to violate the tree ordinance, I will be willing to do civil disobedience to draw attention to the fact that they are going against the people’s wishes.

200 plus people showed up in support of the tree ordinance

And over 30 people shared their valid reasons Only 3 spoke in favor so it was clear what the public really wanted the Fayetteville government to do

At the very end  the meeting, after Mayor Hannah broke the tie and the law was destined to be violated, Bob Jordan stood up in front everyone and said

“If you want to do something constructive to show the government that we want them to listen to us, come to the meeting in the room I have reserved.”

Then the organization We’ve Had Enough was born and lawyers, professors and other professionals

united to continue the battle to uphold the tree ordinance. Including the remember in November campaign to oust Mayor Hanna

Mary Lightheart told patricia after the City Council meeting that she would be willing to climb a tree to save them.

Patricia went home and called and emailed people telling them to meet behind Home Depot where trees that were going to be cut down were located.

5 women: Joannie Conners, Deborah Byron, Susanah_________, Mary Lightheart and patricia

Showed up and hoisted Mary int he tree

Patricia notified the press and the large email group that she had developed,

Without any other efforts on her part, people started showing up and helping

Tom Maringer made a yellow hammock so Mary could be more comfortable and other people provide food and other necessities. The story of the tree sit is yet another phase of the story that won’t be told in this song cause it willb e too long.

The lawyer Anita Schnee wrote the following words in a recommendation she wrote for Patricia“Patricia sparked the resistance movement at its beginning stages. It was she who began organizing against the city’s connivance at tree-preservation ordinance violations in favor of a huge mall development. The resistance grew to include tree-sit action and substantial civil disobedience of over twenty people. Needless to say her efforts were unpaid and largely unrecognized.

Here are some names of other people I haven’t mentioned who  who helped before, during and after the tree sit: City Council members Lioneld Jordan, Randy Zurcher, and another I can’t remember. Stephen Vallus, Robert Kersbergen, David Garcia, Nancy Maier, Donna and Kelly Mulholland, Roc Pursley, Dan Coody, Rev. Lloyd Grisham, Ginny Masulo, Al Vick, Chris Mikkelson, Mahriyanna Mikkelson, Marquette Bruce’s son, the late Nancy Maier, Martha Kay,and all the people who joined the march, attended rallies, donated, organized and supported the Tree Aid concert, voted for a new government, helped with Dan Coody’s campaign, supported Mary while she was in the tree, and St Paul’s Episcopal church which provided a space for activists to meet. Thank you all!

May the stories of the heroes who worked together on this effort be told often and well

Their amazing creativity, dedication and commitment shines brightly to us all.

May we all be inspired by the fact that when we work together we can do the impossible and achieve goals we would never believe that we could do.  

Let us build healthy community, reconcile with each other and find common ground so we can help Fayetteville and the world be a place where all life thrives.

Here are some resources:

Article about the impact of the Tree sit.

Anita Schnees Recommendation for a job that Patricia was applying for that talks about her involvement in the upholding the tree ordinance efforts.

I met Ms. Mikkelson over a year ago, when, as a lawyer, I was called on to mediate diverse grassroots resistance to an unlawful development project in Fayetteville, Arkansas, where she and I live. …Patricia sparked the resistance movement at its beginning stages. It was she who began organizing against the city’s connivance at tree-preservation ordinance violations in favor of a huge mall development. The resistance grew to include tree-sit action and substantial civil disobedience of over twenty people.

Through a protracted and tense summer and at great personal cost, Patricia applied her considerable talents wherever she was needed. She initiated and participated in email bulletin boards and chat-lists that were vital in keeping communication lines open, when fast-moving events threatened to  overwhelm opposition. She responded to demands at all hours; this was important when the bulldozers were mobilizing under cover of darkness. Moreover, endurance became important when the tree sit failed and the development proceeded. Patricia had that endurance>

Eventually, the voters deposed the sitting mayor and even he conceded that he lost because of the tree fight. Further, due to intense community participation and oversight, the applicable tree ordinances have just been redrafted to remove some of the ambiguities that countenanced the violations in the first instance.

Had the resistance collapsed when the trees fell, we might still be suffering under the prior administration. But the resistance continued into the November elections, and the redrafting was due in part to Patricia’s substantial efforts. Needless to say, her efforts were unpaid and, especially regrettably, largely unrecognized.

Subsequently, Patricia and I have talked at length. Based on those conversations and my observation, I can assert that her faith in community action seems to flow from an inexhaustible well. I believe she has the vision and the commitment to work on national issues. She has the experience, the will, and the philosophical mettle to stay flexible and resourceful, in the face of what seems to be overwhelmingly big money interests. She is the right person for the job.

Anita Schnee

Melody of song: She’ll Be Coming Around The MountainLyrics to song written by Patricia Mikkelson, who is starting the Vegan Utopia Ecovillage near Kingston, Arkansas www.VeganUtopiaEcovillage.com

 

I’m Collaborating With Feed Communities in Fayetteville!

I feel so exhilarated and uplifted after having a 90 minute meeting with Alex French and Nina Evans, who are the coordinators of the amazing organization, Feed Communities. 

We started our cooperative effort when I reached out to them to see if they would be willing to host a Community: Connect! event in their spacious, centrally located, with good parking–space. They said “yes!”

I realized after looking at their website and speaking with them that they are in alignment with my goals and vision for creating an alliance of businesses, non-profits, churches, schools and other organizations to achieve well-being for our region.

I am very excited to be partnering with them for the upcoming Community: Connect! which is a networking event which helps people cooperate to create a NW Arkansas where everyone thrives. We don’t have the event page up yet, but you can check out this link to learn about the general format.

During our meeting I was overjoyed to learn that time-tested resources that I have been using might be able to support Feeds Communities. I want to list them here in case other organizations might want to access them.

All of these resources empower volunteers, paid workers, and potential volunteers to get involved more easily without the load of work being on the paid or volunteer staff. I believe that each of these resources will help us to create a world where everyone can thrive.

Open Space Technology: An effective way of organizing gatherings for networking and joyfully creating strategic plans

Sociocracy:  A governing structure where everyone’s voice can be heard. An increasing number of intentional communities, co-ops, businesses, and non-profits are adopting

Nationbuilder Websites: A website platform which not only is easy for anyone to edit and add to, but also has extensive possibilities for creating a database so volunteers and interested people can connect and support each other.

Community: Connect!: This blog describes every aspect of the Community: Connect! event so that anyone can produce this event.

Nonviolent Communication: When people, especially those in leadership, can practice the skills of communicating with empathy and connection, the whole organization will be more likely to flourish.

Co-Working Space: Ideally, a community organization which is promoting collaboration can provide a space for people who do not have offices and who share the organizations values– to work.  Impact Hub is a great example of such a place.  I visited their center in San Francisco and I found the environment to be inspiring and motivating.

What are key resources you have that you think are important to help organizations be the best they can be?

 

Community: Connect! Description

I am constantly revising the description and schedule of Community: Connect! so that it can be ever more effective. I deeply appreciate that I could host five events at Omni Center for Peace,  Justice and Ecology recently. I learned so much, also, from the 5 events I facilitated in the Bay Area over the past 2 years as well as the ones I facilitated in Walker Park over a decade ago.

Community: Connect! is a unique, vibrant networking event which helps people cooperate to create a NW Arkansas where everyone thrives.

And…

A vegan potluck which fulfills our need for healthy food.

Join us for interactive activities and breakout sessions which help build trust and a sense of healthy community.

Bring a plant-based dish to share. Ingredients for a salad bar, or simply fruit–are very welcome! (No dairy, eggs, meat, or animal products. Keep in mind our gluten-free and diabetic friends)

Everyone who wants to can host a break-out session and whoever is interested can join you.

Bring: flyers, business cards, notices, and books for people to look at. We’ll have a table.

Schedule:

6-6:15 PM: Arrive and start eating. Set out networking material and food, post notices (including needs and offerings) and make a creative name tag.

6:15-6:45 Introductions and creating a schedule for break out sessions

6:45–7:05 Facilitate or join a break out session (Allow 15 or 30 minutes for each break out session)

7:10-7:30 Reflection and sharing needs/announcements

8:45-9 Closing circle–Reflection and celebration

9-9:30 Hang out and enjoy deepening the connections

Sometimes just knowing what other people are interested in and getting to know them better can make all the difference in how you work together.

In small groups, introverts and people who are not comfortable in large groups can have a better environment where they can shine.

We use the principles of Open Space Technology to make an event where everyone’s voices can be heard and people’s needs can be met.

Thanks to Feed Communities for hosting, promoting, and providing the space for this event.

Feed Communities was founded in 2011 with the sole mission of ensuring everyone has access to high quality, nutrient-dense food. Today, they work with individuals, organizations, schools, universities, businesses, government agencies and foundations to create sustainable partnerships to increase access to healthy produce and improve healthy food choices for Northwest Arkansas communities.

Organizing, Cleaning, Gardening, and Problem Solving Coaching–Only $10/hr through January 8th, 2019

I am offering my skills at this low rate only in the Fayetteville area because I want to be more accessible to people who can’t afford my usual $20 rate, as well as to give my regular clients a break so that they can use my services even more. If people live further away we can negotiate a mileage fee.

Our Vegan Utopia Ecovillage will have a team of people working to offer these skills once we have people living there. So I am getting the ball rolling!

Organizing, cleaning, and gardening are my specialties.

Often I work with elderly or disabled people who aren’t able to do the physical work that these tasks entail. I work closely with people in order to be their hands and feet, so to speak, in a way that satisfies their need for beauty, order, and comfort.

Some people are physically able to help, but don’t have the time. Or, they need someone to work with in order to motivate them and give emotional support to do the tasks they have been avoiding.

Finally, some people don’t have a clue as to how to declutter and downsize. Often, when I work them, they learn the skills and can go on to finish the job by themselves.

I feel so satisfied when I can support people in the following work:

Organizing

  • Downsizing
  • Helping prepare for a move
  • Decluttering

Cleaning

  • Natural ingredients: vinegar and baking soda clean almost everything!
  • I am thorough and conscientious
  • I have cleaned up the biggest messes you can imagine!

Gardening

  • Leaf raking
  • Hugelkultur beds: I use permaculture principles to make drought-resistant, fertile places for herbs, flowers and vegetables to thrive.
  • Edible Landscaping: I love to transform lawns into fertile gardens and plant herbs, flowers and veggies wherever there is space.
  • Cleaning up beds and planting: I have a green thumb, and I enjoy following my clients’ instructions in doing just what they want.

You can contact me by calling or texting me: 479-313-0414 or

Email: livablefutureproject@gmail.com or message me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/patricia.mikkelson.hughes

For more information, you can visit my website at http://www.simplifiedlivingcoach.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/simplifiedlivingnow/

$5000 Raised In Few Days To Feed Cows On A Farm Transitioning to Vegan Agriculture!

The happiness that Jennifer Barrett is expressing in the writing below is resonating within me as well. When I saw their story about how they needed $5000 to buy hay for their cows because they refused to send the cows to be slaughtered a few days ago, I immediately reached out to Jennifer and she was so grateful for my encouragement and ideas.

Jennifer and her husband, Rodney, have been raising chickens and cows for a living. Two years ago they went vegan and now they are transitioning, with the help of the Rancher Advocate Program sponsored by Rowdy Girl Sanctuary, into a veganic agriculture farm operation! 

I especially appreciate that since they live four hours from the Vegan Utopia Ecovillage site, in Southwest Arkansas, we can be more able to support each other. If you want to learn more about their endeavor, this article tells the whole dramatic story. 

Here are the words Jennifer shared in her Facebook post today: 

You may have seen our story break yesterday about the new endeavor we are pursuing on our beloved farm. We needed funding to keep our cattle fed while we transition and, when we woke up this morning, we were over 100% funded. ❤️🙏🏼😭

There are no words to express the deep gratitude for the kindness of people who see the vision and want to support us along the way. We have had to face so many scary challenges but have been loved and supported with every shaky step we’ve taken. The most amazing people just keep flooding into our lives.

Rodney and I believe with all of our hearts that this is the right thing to do. I’ve never been more sure of anything, ever. I’ve also never been more terrified. It has been a literal leap of faith.

Our strength is in love and we have lots of that..more than we know what to do with. Despite any obstacles, even being shut off from family, we are not swayed in our goal, our mission, to help create a peaceful, healthy, joyful world. I never used to think about what kind of world I would leave behind until my grandkids showed up.

Now, it’s pretty freaking important. When I surrendered my own will and stepped into truth, no matter how difficult that was to do, nothing but good has come to me. I can’t stop it from coming. It is a constant barrage of miracle after miracle. Yesterday was a huge one. Our cows will now be fed because of the kindness and love of humanity. Someone donated $1 … I wept over this.

There is so much good in the world. People keep calling us pioneers and heroes. I don’t know about all of that because I’ve done nothing but stand in my truth. If that is what it takes to blaze new frontiers, we should really all be doing that. I’ve been a vegan all along, I just didn’t know it.


Thank you doesn’t begin to cover it. Every cell in my body is dripping with gratitude. I can’t wait to share pictures of hay showing up.

Merry Christmas to these beautiful beings. Merry Christmas to all who donated or sent words of love and support. You’ll never know what it has meant to the very heartbeat of this farm.

God bless us, every one

Patricia says: Thank you, Jennifer, for your courage, commitment, and trust. You are an inspiration to all of us!